Which sins should people confess?
When speaking to God, we should plead guilty to all sins, even those we don't know about, just as we do in the "
Our Father," but when speaking to the confessor, only the sins we know about, which we know about and feel in our hearts.
Which are these?
Consider here your place in life according to the
Ten Commandments. Are you a father? A mother? A son? A daughter? A husband? A wife? A servant? Are you disobedient, unfaithful or lazy? Have you hurt anyone with your words or actions? Have you stolen, neglected your duty, let things go or injured someone?
Prayer
Father, your mercy is our only hope, as we long for the day when people who walk into church seeking You sense in the atmosphere the contagious good humor, peace, and humility of confessed and forgiven sinners! Help us to be such a presence on earth, for the sake of Jesus Christ our Lord, in whose name we pray, Amen.
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But that is to be done not to make us feel miserable, but to liberate us from exactly what I wrote about yesterday: the everlasting need to pretend to be what we are not. Notice that Luther admits that in speaking to God we are likely and even encouraged to be a bit generalto confess those sins we dont even know about. But not so when confessing to our confessor: then we need to tell about the specific, fractured, ugly truth of our hidden lives. Not much about us is really hidden from those who know us well. Its is kind of like the quiet joke Alcoholics Anonymous is: by the time an alcoholic considers going to AA, about the only person in his world who doesnt already know he is an alcoholic is himself!